Read the praise messages again and listen closely to the underlying message that children hear.
- If I don’t learn quickly, I’m not smart.
- I shouldn’t try drawing anything hard or they’ll see I’m no Picasso.
- I’d better quit studying or they won’t think I’m brilliant.
We need to make sure that our messages of praise aren’t saying “You have permanent traits and I’m judging them,” but rather, “You’re a developing person and I’m interested in your development.”
So what/how should we praise then?
Dweck offers these suggestions……
Praise as much as you would like for growth oriented process.
- practice
- study
- effort
- accepting a challenge
- persistence
- strategies
So, how can we do this in our classrooms? Here are a few of my favorites…….
